Ask Mary: How To Be A Success?
How can we gain more success? We need to ask, “What would it look like if I had success?” We all have an idea that we know what is possible for us but there are abundant resources that the Universe holds.
It is our limited beliefs about what our lives can be that stand in the way of seeing infinite possibility. Even if we are able to comprehend that infinite possibility, many people never get specific enough about exactly what it is that they want in their lives.
When we inquire, “What should success be for me?” We ought be asking more detailed questions like: “How should my relationships look?” “How should my financial life look?” “How should my work life look?” “What should I do with my aptitude?” “Where should I reside and travel?”
The most fundamental part of achieving success is defining with clarity and specificity what success looks like for you as an individual. A great example of this idea is to imagine that you have an opportunity to have the world’s most talented team of architects, designers and builders create your dream home from the ground up. If all you tell this dream team is that you want a home that makes you happy, you have given away all control and participation in the creative process.
There is no way that the most talented architect will know how to draw up blue prints that will make you happy. The builders will not know whether you want a house made of brick, wood or stone. The designer won’t know if you prefer modern, traditional or country design.
It is exactly the same with the Universe. When you say, “I desire to be profitable,” the Universe has no way of knowing exactly what the should look like. So, the first part of truly gaining success in your life is to have yearning for what you want to build and the clarity to delineate it.
Check out a video response on this topic from Mary Manin Morrissey or visit the Ask Mary Morrissey blog to see other answers to life’s important questions.
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How To Be Self-Confident
Many of us are not satisfied with ourselves, with some particular features of our character or the results of our own deeds. Psychologists refer to such phenomenon as low self esteem. What’s the reason we don’t value ourselves? First thing to consider is that our self esteem is based on how other people perceive us. We are inclined to base our self esteem on other people’s opinions. This is true especially on children.
First of all, how other people perceive us is what our self esteem depends on. On other people’s opinions is where we are inclined to base our self esteem on. It is especially typical of children. Little children are not able to analyze their activity and their confidence depends on adults’ estimation of their behavior. Besides during all our lives we always compare the image of our ideal “ego “with our real “ego”. And if our real “I “is too far form the ideal our self esteem suffers from it. As our ideal image may be too perfect and unreal, it would mean that there are no reasons for that in most cases.
People with low self esteem do not hope for success in their activities and they are more likely to act, just trying to escape from our failures. And even when they attain positive results, they attribute their small victories to external factors (the task was too easy; it was just luck). Also growing dramatically is the feeling of discontent with themselves. People cannot achieve success, because they are dissatisfied with themselves and on the other hand, they are dissatisfied with themselves because they have never managed to succeed which means that it is a kind of vicious cycle. Try to keep in mind that you will achieve what you intend to do and that every success starts with your self confidence.
To improve your self confidence here is an efficient exercise you can do. Making a list of positive features of your character is what you can do and be sure that it’s no less than forty. It’s likely that this won’t be easy. However, you may write when you wish to and you are not limited for time. You are to enrich it with new strong points of your nature every day once that the list is completed.
Here is an efficient exercise you can do in order to improve your self confidence. You are expected to make a list of positive features of your character (not less than forty). This could be quite difficult. But you are not limited for time and you may write when you wish to. Once the list is completed, you are to enrich it with new strong points of your nature every day. You will soon see that such a person as described in the list is someone you will definitely like and surely deserves respect.
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